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Helping parents raise their children as a cohesive unit

On Behalf of | Jul 9, 2019 | Divorce |

When Virginia parents get divorced, they may not always consider the impact that it can have on their children. However, parents who work together to raise their children may have a greater chance of seeing them grow up into adults who are emotionally and socially intelligent. To successfully do so, it is important for the adults to put aside their animus towards each other and focus on the needs of their sons and daughters.

Ideally, children will have roughly the same rules and expectations regardless of which parent that they are with. Consistency can create a sense of safety that can help them live up to their potential. It may also prevent a situation in which parents try to buy gifts or otherwise cater to their children out of a sense of guilt. While consistency is the goal, it doesn’t mean that parenting plans can’t be flexible.

If something does change, the parents should be the first to tell each other about their new circumstances. A child should never be required to be the one to break the news about an important event. When parents talk to each other, they should be positive and focus on the needs of their children. This can minimize or prevent conflict, which can be better for the parents and the children alike.

Individuals who are planning on getting divorced may benefit from speaking with an attorney. A family law professional may be able to help a person obtain custody or visitation rights to a child. An attorney may be able to help a parent obtain child support or other resources needed to care for a son or daughter. With the right guidance, it may be possible to settle a divorce in a timely and amicable manner.


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