Experience, Accessibility And Proven Results

Photo Of Daniel George Dannenbaum

Inability to recover from disputes contributes to many divorces

On Behalf of | Apr 2, 2019 | Divorce |

Married couples in Virginia generally recognize that they need to make ongoing efforts to nurture their relationships. Emotional inertia and exhaustion, however, can undermine people’s desire to work on their marriages. Divorces sometimes result, and an inability to recover from arguments tops the list of reasons for marriages to end.

Recovery from a dispute or confrontation requires partners to repair their feelings and focus on fixing relationship problems. Disagreements naturally arise even in good relationships, but family therapists emphasize that emotional repair after fighting must occur for couples to maintain good feelings toward each other. When repair fails to happen, people feel ignored and grow distant from their partners.

Similarly, a state known as emotional flooding can overwhelm people’s ability to repair their relationships. Marital fights trigger their sense of feeling threatened. When this heightened emotional state persists, people cannot move past the issues that caused their disagreements.

Simply growing apart accounts for a portion of divorces. Couples gradually lose interest in maintaining their relationships. Their divorces do not necessarily happen because of a major issue or bad behavior. The relationships quietly stagnate until the spouses decide to move on with separate lives.

Regardless of the reasons motivating a person to end a marriage, getting a divorce will require someone to navigate the legal system. The support of an attorney could enable someone to file the correct court documents to initiate the process. Advice from an attorney might help a person make important decisions about child custody or the division of property. Family law governs these issues, and an attorney may be able to defend a client’s rights during settlement negotiations. With legal representation, a person might avoid financial pitfalls that might arise from hasty or emotional decisions.


FindLaw Network